My boyfriend and I grow

[toad687]

My current boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, nearly 7. *We actually met off of here and instantly clicked. at first, we were just fooling around, but then we got serious April this year.

He'd been working out with weights a little before we met and seeing the change as a turn on it motivated me even more. i started working out hard in April (around the time we started dating ... coincidence? lol) and the changes i'm noticing in myself is pretty hot too.

When we first met, he was just starting to get some muscle on him, so he would flex for me and we would have short worship sessions. Now he has something considerably more to flex (as do i!) so now he can turn me on just by flexing his bicep. his pecs have grown too, and his body overall *is definitely leaner and buffer than just a year ago. now my goal is to outgrow him, so we'll see how that goes.

[vlad]

Nice! Encouraging each other and getting hotter is 1. Awesome and 2. A good sign for a relationship. A similar has definitely happened in my 4.5 year relationship with my husbear!

[alwaysmyway]

Sounds like quite a strategy. Shame I have a girlfriend! XD

[chazptch]

When I met my bf he was already a huge bodybuilder (5'11" 235# solid) he's been training me and helped me put 35# of muscle on my 21 y/o 5'8" frame. Now I'm 180# and looking forward to getting bigger. Working out is definitely great for our relationship.

[Grasshoppertoo]

how about posting some before/after pics?

Originally Posted by chazptch

When I met my bf he was already a huge bodybuilder (5'11" 235# solid) he's been training me and helped me put 35# of muscle on my 21 y/o 5'8" frame. Now I'm 180# and looking forward to getting bigger. Working out is definitely great for our relationship.

[monstermusclebe]

Why don't you trade off? Have you both focus on one of you getting bigger than the other... i.e. the one who is smaller than the other, of the two of you. Then once that is done, you switch focus to the other guy.

Now, no cheating! The one who isn't in the 'growth seat' can still get bigger, too. But what they can't do is get smaller, to compensate for that the other is smaller. That's cheating. No sacrificing oneself for one's partner.

I was thinking that this might be more fun than trying to simply outgrow your boyfriend. It instead turns it into a mutually supportive thing... and over time, you both get huge.

Originally Posted by toad687

My current boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, nearly 7. *We actually met off of here and instantly clicked. at first, we were just fooling around, but then we got serious April this year.

He'd been working out with weights a little before we met and seeing the change as a turn on it motivated me even more. i started working out hard in April (around the time we started dating ... coincidence? lol) and the changes i'm noticing in myself is pretty hot too.

When we first met, he was just starting to get some muscle on him, so he would flex for me and we would have short worship sessions. Now he has something considerably more to flex (as do i!) so now he can turn me on just by flexing his bicep. his pecs have grown too, and his body overall *is definitely leaner and buffer than just a year ago. now my goal is to outgrow him, so we'll see how that goes.

[Bear89]

Originally Posted by monstermusclebe

Why don't you trade off? Have you both focus on one of you getting bigger than the other... i.e. the one who is smaller than the other, of the two of you. Then once that is done, you switch focus to the other guy.

Now, no cheating! The one who isn't in the 'growth seat' can still get bigger, too. But what they can't do is get smaller, to compensate for that the other is smaller. That's cheating. No sacrificing oneself for one's partner.

I was thinking that this might be more fun than trying to simply outgrow your boyfriend. It instead turns it into a mutually supportive thing... and over time, you both get huge.

Actually, that's what my bf and I do. And it does serve for an interesting method, cause orginally I was the bigger one, but now he's about to(if he hasnt already) pass me up and so our relationship and attraction dynamic has changed quite a bit. It really keeps things interesting! And I cant wait to pass him up again

[raven79]

These kind of relationships would work for all of us on this forum because they are what we look for in men. #1: Common interests; #2: Sex would be extremely great; #3: Personality connections; #4: Long-term goals could extend the relationship for years, not days or months.

I know that is just my opinion, but we all on here have a common interest: muscle building and muscle worship.

[toad687]

Originally Posted by raven79

These kind of relationships would work for all of us on this forum because they are what we look for in men. #1: Common interests; #2: Sex would be extremely great; #3: Personality connections; #4: Long-term goals could extend the relationship for years, not days or months.

I know that is just my opinion, but we all on here have a common interest: muscle building and muscle worship.

I understand what you're saying about common interests, but if that was all I had in common with him I don't think it would've have lasted as long as it has. We connect on many more things than just muscle. It's great that it brought us together, but our other interests keep us.

[plaindudefornow]

Me and mine are growing too. Sadly, we can't train together (I think that would be more motivating for both of us) but we are both trying. I have to admit, I am torn between staying the bigger one and wanting him to pass me up.

On the one hand, I like being the bigger one and having him all into my muscles....on the other hand, it would be nice for the reverse to happen too.

[musclefan9]

Not that plaindudefornow is not enjoying some of my muscles, he loves my calves. But I will admit that those arms of his, mmm, not to mention his chest are plenty for me to admire and worship!

[raven79]

Oh wow, we have a real-life couple on here comparing each other! Cool beans!

[toad687]

so we just measured ourselves yesterday ... Gained a 1/4in on my arms in just a little over a month!

[hbguy75]

So i am toad687's boyfriend... and i just wanted to say how proud i am of his muscle gains... he's really been hitting the gym diligently and the changes in his body are amazing.. can't wait to see how his body continues to grow!

[toad687]

hbguy has the bigger arms ... Looking forward to passing him though.

[chocomus]

that sounds so awesome, first h is bigger, then t outgrows him, giving him motivation to grow bigger, then h outgrows him again making t to want grow more....

sounds great in my opinion ^__^

and even better that both of them get off of eachother's gains

[toad687]

Originally Posted by chocomus

that sounds so awesome, first h is bigger, then t outgrows him, giving him motivation to grow bigger, then h outgrows him again making t to want grow more....

sounds great in my opinion ^__^

and even better that both of them get off of eachother's gains

Hehe that's the long and short of it!

[yummielicious]

thanks for sharing your wonderful experience.. it sounds like both of you is HOT !! . yeah . heheh

[iwantabehuge]

God I wish I had someone like this!

[arpeejay]

Somehow I'd missed this one! You know the drill:

Pix, dammit, pix!

Stats, dammit, stats!

xoxo

Richard

[toad687]

a month later ...

arpeejay i was actually waiting for your response, and surprised it took you so long! Lol but I am here to deliver finally.. While I myself don't really have any good transformation pictures, what I do have is pics of myself, now. My boyfriend however has good pics on his Bigmuscle profile, www.bigmusclebears.com/otterguy75.

Me:
the only "before" pic i have:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...7/IMG_3355.jpg
and a few recent ones, taken tonight after a good upper body workout hehe
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...7/IMG_9687.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v3...7/IMG_7452.jpg

[raven79]

Wow toad, you and your boyfriend look a lot alike from the pictures I've seen.

[Ragetiger]

total hotties. both of you look great. there's alot of progress between the before and after. don't know how long there is between the tow but it's impressive.

keep it up.

[toad687]

Originally Posted by raven79

Wow toad, you and your boyfriend look a lot alike from the pictures I've seen.

This has been brought up between us before. Lol

[GoliathCA]

You're both making great progress! Keep up the awesome work. Please feel free to hit me up if I can provide guidance or support.

[hbguy75]

So someone forgot to provide measurements... As of Feb 24th

Me:
Arms 14.5
Forearm 11
Thigh 23
calf 16.25
chest 42.75
waist 36
weight 195

Toad:
Arms 13
Forearm 11
Thigh 24
calf 15.5
chest 39.5
waist 35
weight 182

[toad687]

hbguy has a nice chest ... It's fun to grope.

[toad687]

Oh and all those measurements are "cold".

[hbguy75]

Some nice progress has been made..

check out my new pics and Toad's new BMB profile! ;-)


http://www.bigmusclebears.com/~otterguy75

http://www.bigmusclebears.com/~indieotter

[raven79]

LOL! I just can't get over the resemblance! If you two were side by side, I would have trouble figuring out who is who!

[Rarity]

Originally Posted by raven79

LOL! I just can't get over the resemblance! If you two were side by side, I would have trouble figuring out who is who!

Not cracking on gay guys, but I noticed that some of them date other guys who look similar to them. . . Is it just me who sees that? Unless it's the "all white people look alike" statement I'm basing that off of, then damn my Jappy-eyes! I can't drive OR tell white people apart.

Terrible jokes/racism aside, I think you two are pretty good looking. How long have you been working out together? How long have you been together? How much can you bench/curl/etc? QUESTIONS???

[toad687]

how long have you two been working out together?

We actually have yet to workout together! he works out at home, and I have a 24 Hour membership.*

how long have you two been together?

It'll be a year on the 15th!

how much can you bench/curl/etc.?

Since otterguy works out at home by himself, he hasn't established maxes or anything. I know he regularly curls 50lbs with ease, which sets my heart aflutter.*

As for myself, last I checked it was something like,
Squat: 135
Bench: 115-120
Deadlift: 170ish
Curls:40(trying to improve on that)

QUESTIONS???

ANSWERS!!!

And I haven't met many gay couples that look like each other. So it could just be your inability to tell white people apart. :P

[Rarity]

1) Maybe that's a good thing. Working out is like "alone/me time" for guys, isn't it?

2) D'aw.

3) That's pretty good I think.

4) Its a conspiracy, I tell ya.

[toad687]

1. It varies. I'd prefer a spotter so I could lift heavier weight. Dunno about bf.

2. Yeah I lnow! Lol

3. If you think so, then great!

4. Or is it ... ?