Whats the biggest guy you have ever been with??

[muscle]

Mine was a guy who was 5'8 240lbs. The most vascular legs I have ever seen. eveerything else was just as big. Huge pecs with thick nipples that pointed straight down to the floor. all if took was to roll one between you tumb and forefinger and he would get hard almost instantly!!

[suma]

mine was two guys
one was about 5'11 somewhere around 280-290lbs with an awesome roidgut

other guy was 5'8 285-295lbs

being with either one is awesome.

[ushersdick]

Originally Posted by muscle

Mine was a guy who was 5'8 240lbs. The most vascular legs I have ever seen. eveerything else was just as big. Huge pecs with thick nipples that pointed straight down to the floor. all if took was to roll one between you tumb and forefinger and he would get hard almost instantly!!

He's hot! got his number?! haha

[Dentistclark]

I dated a guy for 8 months. 6', 300lbs, 22" arms, 50" chest, 30" waist....everything else in proportion! Loved having muscle on demand and miss him terribly......why did I let Billy go?

[suma]

Originally Posted by Dentistclark

I dated a guy for 8 months. 6', 300lbs, 22" arms, 50" chest, 30" waist....everything else in proportion! Loved having muscle on demand and miss him terribly......why did I let Billy go?

WHAT THE FUCK
how did you let him slip away?

[CelticMuscle]

So, we've had:

• 5ft 8 and 240lbs
• 5ft 8 and 290lbs
• 5ft 11 and 285lbs
• 6ft and 300lbs

The thing is, the question was "What's the biggest guy you have been with?" which to me asks another question "What do you mean by biggest?". I will be honest and say that I have only met two bodybuilders in person (one of whom was 5ft 2 and 146 lbs and the other was 5ft 5 (or thereabouts) and weighed about 150 - 160lbs and yet when they stood next to each other and did a double biceps shot, they looked equally as big.

[wanthugemass]

Mine was 5ft3 and 215..... skinheaded and tattooed which was nice.... pro-rata he looked as big and immense as any tank weighing 260 and over 6ft

[Mdlftr]

Originally Posted by Dentistclark

I dated a guy for 8 months. 6', 300lbs, 22" arms, 50" chest, 30" waist....everything else in proportion! Loved having muscle on demand and miss him terribly......why did I let Billy go?

Maybe you found out that muscle ISN'T everything? That it doesn't fill in the blanks resulting from a lack of mutual interests, lack of common world views and imcompatible personalities?

*GASP*!!

[gogr2]

Biggest guy I ever met in person is Musclegod... 6'1ish and 320lbs at the time... Amazingly strong.

[arpeejay]

Hmm, let me think. Two bodybuilders (5'8 / 235 and 5'11 / 220) and two powerlifters (5'11 / 320 and 6'1 / 250.) In other words, about 1.5-2% of the total. Big guys, for whatever reason, have zero interest in me. I've never quite figured it out but I'm guessing for most I'm (a) not big enough, (b) not built enough, (c) not butch enough, or (d) some combination of the preceding.

Ah well...

Interesting question!

xoxo

Richard

[arpeejay]

Also:

Are we going to have a party when I hit the 4,000 mark on postings (18 to go after this one) or do I have to wait until 5,000?

Just wondering!

xoxo

Richard

[inm]

Originally Posted by arpeejay

Hmm, let me think. Two bodybuilders (5'8 / 235 and 5'11 / 220) and two powerlifters (5'11 / 320 and 6'1 / 250.) In other words, about 1.5-2% of the total. Big guys, for whatever reason, have zero interest in me. I've never quite figured it out but I'm guessing for most I'm (a) not big enough, (b) not built enough, (c) not butch enough, or (d) some combination of the preceding.

Ah well...

Interesting question!

xoxo

Richard

how does "5'8 / 235" translate to "Big guys, for whatever reason, have zero interest in me"? damn, you standards are high!

[arpeejay]

Originally Posted by inm

how does "5'8 / 235" translate to "Big guys, for whatever reason, have zero interest in me"? damn, you standards are high!

4 guy out of, well, do the math: about 1-2% of the total over a period of nearly 20 years.

And, while we're at it, I gotta say that the two bodybuilders were definitely among the worst sexual experiences of my life. The first one (5'8 / 235) was totally into his little brown bottle (sorry, poppers give me migraines), the second (5'11 / 220) had to watch porn and talk about himself, no interactivity whatsoever. Yowza!

The powerlifters, on the other hand...

xoxo

Richard

[vlad]

Omg man, you can't just leave us hanging like that! You gotta tell us about the powerlifters! I would kill to be able to hook up with a powerlifter...

[Mdlftr]

Originally Posted by arpeejay

Hmm, let me think. Two bodybuilders (5'8 / 235 and 5'11 / 220) and two powerlifters (5'11 / 320 and 6'1 / 250.) In other words, about 1.5-2% of the total. Big guys, for whatever reason, have zero interest in me. I've never quite figured it out but I'm guessing for most I'm (a) not big enough, (b) not built enough, (c) not butch enough, or (d) some combination of the preceding.

Ah well...

Interesting question!

xoxo

Richard

Richard,
I don't pretend to be a mind reader, but did it ever occur to you that "it's not you, it's them"? I know that can sound like a cliche,but it bears thinking about. Guys are competitive by nature and guys into any comparative/competitive situation will want to beat the other guy. So, in a situation where people are comparing the relative size and strength of their bodies, they would tend to tune out or ignore the competition. You're NOT a small man: you have a good shoulder/chest to waist taper and are well proportioned,plus you're well over 200 pounds and close to 6 feet tall. I can see where a bodybuilder would feel like you were too close to being competition for him to the point that he would try to either really dominate you physically, or, if that didn't work, ignore you.

Bears thinking about. We all have interactions that don't go well and then we discover, "hey, it WAS him! Not me!''

Mdlftr

[inm]

Originally Posted by arpeejay

4 guy out of, well, do the math: about 1-2% of the total over a period of nearly 20 years.

And, while we're at it, I gotta say that the two bodybuilders were definitely among the worst sexual experiences of my life. The first one (5'8 / 235) was totally into his little brown bottle (sorry, poppers give me migraines), the second (5'11 / 220) had to watch porn and talk about himself, no interactivity whatsoever. Yowza!

The powerlifters, on the other hand...

xoxo

Richard

LOL, the narcissist stereotype of bodybuilders.. they were expecting you to worship!

[BigLittleTim]

Roger Hazard

[GTlifter]

Originally Posted by BigLittleTim

Roger Hazard

Wow really, that was a strong bed LOL

[arpeejay]

Originally Posted by GTlifter

Wow really, that was a strong bed LOL

Tim is LOT bigger than Roger Hazard! :-)

xoxo

Richard

[Stoneman]

I did the math — if 4 = 1-2%, Richard has slept with 200-400 men over the past (nearly) twenty years. That breaks down to an average of 10-20 men per year. If 4 men are 1.5% of the total, then he's slept with 266.6 men, with 13.3 men per year.

Math is fun.

[bigbearny]

Originally Posted by BigLittleTim

Roger Hazard

so jealous.. plus that must've been a damn lot of sexy in one place ;D

[vlad]

Originally Posted by BigLittleTim

Roger Hazard

A little part of my brain exploded imagining that. Wow! The perks of being hot a-list musclebears: getting to have sex with other incredible musclebears!!

[arpeejay]

Originally Posted by Stoneman

I did the math ? if 4 = 1-2%, Richard has slept with 200-400 men over the past (nearly) twenty years. That breaks down to an average of 10-20 men per year. If 4 men are 1.5% of the total, then he's slept with 266.6 men, with 13.3 men per year.

Math is fun.

Yep, pretty much right in the middle of that, although in reality the "active years" were 1993 to 2003 (Naoyuki and I have been together since March 2003...)

xoxo

Richard

[garrix]

5'10" 320 lbs of beeeeeeeeeeeeeeef. Biggest dude I've ever met. Period.

Getting my arms around that much offseason man was just amazing. Dude looks like a cross between a powerlifter and a bodybuilder.

[Dentistclark]

Garrix me jealous, tell us more!

[truffaldino]

I'm jealous too! Powerlifter/bodybuilder hybrids are great! I'll bet he could throw you around like a rag doll if he (and you, naturally) wanted to.

Scott

[garrix]

Well, I'm not that small... But yeah, he was a big dude. Still had 110 pounds on me... which is hard to fathom...But he wasn't into roughhousing or anything.

I have two gay weightlifting friends who use the term "Beefalo" to describe big beefy weightlifters. Well, my friend called this guy "King Beefalo". lol.

[wesman123]

How strong?

[garrix]

A hell of a lot stronger than me!

I actually wanted to lift with him and my friends response was "why? its not like you'll be able to match or even get close to any of his lifts"

[an0n12]

Well I have had my first (and then some) encounter with men but here are the biggest guys I've been with so far.
6'3" and 230lbs
5'9" and 215lbs
5'8" and 225lbs
5'9" and 217lbs