Proposal: Terms to describe who we are and what we want

[schwermarko]

I have been having a very interesting time here recently on the forums, I have had more time to contribute and chat and have enjoyed getting to engage with so many of you-- Thank you. It has been especially illuminating for me to engage with people of different orientations, as the MG fetish seems to transcend the strait/gay divide.

I have however noticed that there is one thing I don't see here, which is prevalent (and damn convenient) in the other fetish communities I engage with- Terms to clarify what we want and from and with whom. For example if your fetish is weight gain it is really easy to describe whether you want to get fat, your partner to get fat, both of you to get fat, you just like fat and don't expect yourself or them to get bigger, etc. All I have to say is that I am a BHM feedee, and people who do WG understand that that means.

I would like to get the ball rolling and see if anyone else would be interested in staking a name for their particular part of this interesting world.

[schwermarko]

In particular what term do we want to use for the person who wishes for themselves to grow, and for the person who wishes the mate to grow? obviously the first also has an option for mutuality.

[schwermarko]

I am going to start with what I think we already have:

Admirer: someone who appreciates muscular mates, with no specific need for growth.

Worship: I think we got this one, although someone may have fun giving a webster style definition.

Macro- person being transformed increases in hight, becomiing a giant.

I know there is more, the part I am missing is what to we call the person who wants to transform, and what do we call the person who wants to watch, aid, or cause transformation?

[suma]

Wouldn't the person who wants to watch or get off on the growth be the admirer/ worshipper?
So it'd be:
Macro admirer/worshipper
MG admirer
Chub admirer /chaser
Etc

If the person wants to cause things, that'd be:
Macro grower
MG grower
Chub grower/feeder

The one who wants to be the subject is:
Macro growee
MG growee
Chub growee

[schwermarko]

So I guess I am not the only one using grower and growee.

perhaps a cultivator, I am looking for a petite female cultivator who enjoys cooking, feeding and muscle worship.

[hero1000]

If a person wants a friend to grow with them. Be the grower and cause the growth in someone else. Usually muscle. What would that be?

Codependent Hulking?

[GTlifter]

Yea I think he's just looking for more creative terms which makes sense. Much like gay culture has all kind of variations but at least their creative a bit.

[schwermarko]

I kind of like hero1000's use of the term hulk to describe the person who changes

I tend along the (b/h)ulk hybrid as well. I hope you find someone to mutual (b/h)ulk-out with.

I am definitely an exclusive.

[hero1000]

I think it would be cool as heck to watch Shwermarko turn into a Hulk and enjoy the power rush as his clothes burst from sheer size....I would save mine for later as I think about how awesome that was to watch!

Anyway, Merry Christmas friends!

[schwermarko]

Ah, 2 new issues:

What do we call the devoted few who get off on watching someone they have an otherwise platonic relationship with grow. I will be honest and admit I have trouble understanding this group, I somewhat figure everyone wants to feel this power inside of them, one way or another (wink).

And then there is the question of permanence and continuation. I don't fantasize much about true hulk outs because they end and (if you are true to the comics) reverse. I would be so disappointed to stop, and devistated to wake up as Bruce Banner after a hulk out! If the growth were something I controlled or willed I don't think I could ever get enough!

[GTlifter]

I will admit IRL Hulk is growing on me when me and schwermarko chat so I put my support behind it.

[suma]

Originally Posted by hero1000

If a person wants a friend to grow with them. Be the grower and cause the growth in someone else. Usually muscle. What would that be?

Codependent Hulking?

Isn't that simply growee ISO another like-minded growee

[schwermarko]

Originally Posted by suma

Isn't that simply growee ISO another like-minded growee

Not necessarily, two growers can be in a sexual relationship and get off on each other's growth without that arrousal involving one contributing to the growth of the other. Think of all the stories and images of two friends getting caught up in an experiment, one watching the other transform.

There are others who get off on causing or facilitating growth. The mad scientist, obsessive coach, or dotting wife. The interest for them is the same wether they also wish to grow themselves or not.

This could also be a game for more than 2, imagine a setup with several hulks being encouraged by one mad scientist. Or one hulk with a feeder and a coach, and a mad scientist all pushing him and attending to his tremendous sexual needs,

[hero1000]

Originally Posted by suma

Isn't that simply growee ISO another like-minded growee

Maybe....but not always....

[hero1000]

Originally Posted by schwermarko

Ah, 2 new issues:

What do we call the devoted few who get off on watching someone they have an otherwise platonic relationship with grow. I will be honest and admit I have trouble understanding this group, I somewhat figure everyone wants to feel this power inside of them, one way or another (wink).

And then there is the question of permanence and continuation. I don't fantasize much about true hulk outs because they end and (if you are true to the comics) reverse. I would be so disappointed to stop, and devistated to wake up as Bruce Banner after a hulk out! If the growth were something I controlled or willed I don't think I could ever get enough!

So I've been thinking about this and while I understand you wanting to stay huge what I hear you saying is "I don't ever want a boner because it will only go soft again and I would be so disappointed and devastated".

I think of Hulking out as the ultimate whole body boner and orgasm....I don't think I would "not want it" just cause it might go away after a time....Just saying with absolute and ultimate respect to one of my favorite peeps on here.

[schwermarko]

I have one or two scenarios in the vein of hyper-pump/hulk out/full body hard on, I am going to start actually writing these into stories and posting them, so stay tuned. I'm actually surprised by how much interest my ideas are generating, I always figured that since I don't like the typical stories, no one would me interested in reading my atypical ones.

You have to understand that I have been larger than almost everyone around me my whole life. I have only recently (7yrs) started to make that be because of muscle instead of blubber. I've always found most of these stories to be a turnoff because the protagonist looks like Ed Norton before and after his hulk out. For me that would be like having a monster hard on, and then waking up with no penis (please no PM's or encouraging remarks from the M to F crowd, I'm NOT into that). It would feel like a huge violation. There are some stories where each hulk out never fully recedes, and the character's base state grows with each hulk out, these I like. If I could hulk out, workout and refeed as hulk and have it be packing mass 10# at a go on my Bruce Banner body, I'd be doing it every day, maybe even a couple of times a day!

[schwermarko]

I've heard a new one, Hypertrophiliac, I happen to like that one, because it is literally the love of growth.