Eyes!

[ashleydelfin]

Okay, this question will probably sound silly to some of you, but =P I'm used to asking silly questions.

Thing is, I like muscle. Okay, I love it. But although I might find a guy's bod totally hot; if when I see his face he isn't what I (in my subjective way, of course) consider "handsome" then all the muscle in the world won't help me find him attractive. I mean, I know it's superficial, but it's true. So while muscle helps, the thing that really defines wether I like a guy or not is the eyes.

Am I the only one here that feels this way?

Or is anyone else looking for a guy you can describe with Rosario Castellanos' lines:
"Your eyes are more beautiful than the world,
and the world is so beautiful."
(I translated it from Spanish so it might not be perfect)

[paarke]

I'm the opposite, if I see I guy not so great in the looks department but with a really hot body he would still score. In fact, if anything I might go as far as to say I almost prefer it that way. One thing I will say though, it doesn't matter how great the looks or the body are, if I don't like the personality, forget it.

[Bull]

The ideal for me would be for the guy to have all three: looks, body, personality. But if I ever found that, it would be so intimidating, I doubt I could even try for the guy. In the real world, what it takes for me to find a guy hot is for him to have one extraordinary thing, be it a beautiful face, a muscular body, a big cock, a fascinating personality; something. So long as he has something that seems extraordinary to me, that's enough. I will soon find all the rest of his qualities attractive too.

[MJ1978]

I guess I'm very strict in the sense that no matter how good a guy looks, if he opens his mouth and stupid falls out, or the worst case might happen, a purse falls out, then me finding him attractive comes to a sudden halt. I like someone who can hold their own, definately. That kind of confidence is sexy. Of course, I find many things sexy. Hair on the chest and arms (is the word I'm looking for here yum??), a smile that makes you forget your name (as stated before to some of you guys..hehe), and eyes that you want to get lost in. Those are just a few. Humor is a plus.

It does depend on the guy though. I've found myself attracted to one guy way back who was over 250lbs, not muscle, but he carried the weight well. It never occured to me that he could be a dud like anyone. Each guy is uniquely different. It's about finding what you like about them, and as Bull said, everything else falls into place.

A killer grin works to get the ball rolling though. *sheepish grin*

Regarding the statement:

"opens his mouth and stupid falls out, or ... a purse falls out"

Kind'a goes along with with something my mother told me:

"Be careful when you open your mouth, you're exposing your brains".