Muscle Guy Help

[BastianLe]

So there is this really hot muscle guy at my college, and i've talked to him once in the gym locker room alone and got him to flex, etc.

What I want to know is how can I take it to the next level, i'm trying to find out if he has a gf or not, before I do, but I want to as I said kick it up a notch
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[Zap]

What do you mean by "kick it up a notch"?

[BastianLe]

Originally Posted by Zap

What do you mean by "kick it up a notch"?

if he's gay a possible boyfriend who's into guys who likes muscles, or if he's "straight" and single, to keep the private posing sessions a regular.

[Zap]

It sounds like you barely know the guy. If you are roughly the same size as him, you can offer to be his spotter if he needs one. If you're smaller than him (or roughly the same size, it doesn't matter in this case) you should ask if he'll be your spotter because *insert reason here*.This'll give you a chance to socialize with him and find out what his love life is like. If he turns out to be unavailable, then you at least have a new friend to hang out with/help you at the gym.


DO:
1) If he doesn't know you're gay, keep it that way for now. After all, straight guys don't run around going "I'm straight, I'm straight!" or something equally asanine.

2) Be yourself, don't go out of your way to impress him, and *insert whatever parents tell their children about how to deal with their lil crushes*.

3) Try to get buddy-buddy with the guy. Don't just talk at the gym, go out for a drink or something. First he has to feel semi-comfortable with you first. If he offers to go out with just you, then there's a good chance that he's gay. If he asks you to go out with friends, then he's most likely straight.

4) If he questions your sexuality, be honest. I've seen guys lie for the sake of at least keeping a friend.


DON'T:
1) Ask him to flex. If you keep doing it, he'll eventually catch on - which could be a good or bad thing. Now if he flexes for you without your asking(or tries to subtly flex), then he's obviously flirting with you. If he jokes about how you didn't ask him to flex, then that's a toss up between flirting or awkwardly joking.

[BastianLe]

Thanks Zap, you have provided me with some direction with out me being completely reckless and botching up big time.

Yeah, I find the most straight guys go the modest route when you compliment them, but your input is a big help.

[howardbeatman]

Thank you, Zap, for giving that adult advice.

[msllover]

There are some straight guys who enjoy teasing by flexing though. While working at a diner at college, I had some straight co-workers who got wind of me liking muscle. Well, they were flexing their abs at the most inoppertune times and said stuff like, "U want it? U want it? U like that huh?" Naturally, I was beside myself in more ways than one, and enjoyed myself very much. But it just goes to show, some straights LOVE to tease no matter what.

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[BastianLe]

haha, true, I think I would make a day...and maybe night of it, lol.

[BastianLe]

Honestly I don't even know how those got there, i didn't conscientiously put them there, sorry for the confusion...on the links