I'm really embarrassed to talk about this ...

SoDakGuy · #1 December 23rd, 2013, 08:06 PM

And I don't want it to go to perversion. But ... I need some advice. Flat out honesty ... why is it the bigger, leaner and more muscular I get, the more I just want to bottom? Not lazy at all, just just playful bottoming. I feel silly asking this flat out, but really ... I look and my personality is pretty dominant, HOWEVER ... I'm still wanting to dominate bottoming. Am I making any sense at all?

MuscleAsh · #2 December 23rd, 2013, 09:19 PM

The word you're looking for is power bottom, dude. Don't worry, it's a thing. You're perfectly normal.

JeffXeno · #3 December 23rd, 2013, 09:39 PM

And what a wonderful thing that is..

SoDakGuy · #4 December 23rd, 2013, 09:50 PM

Honestly ... if I never was a top again, I'd be all right with that. I'm still pretty damn choosy with who I mess around with, but I just love the feeling to bottom. And since I'm going to Fort Lauderdale this weekend and I haven't had sex since March, I may have to go and cause some fun.

suma · #5 December 23rd, 2013, 10:40 PM

SoDakGuy
I sent u a pvt mssg

bigdave · #6 December 24th, 2013, 12:07 AM

Somebody should warn Fort Lauderdale! Good luck!

THE BODYBUILDING GIANT · #7 December 24th, 2013, 04:19 AM

lol normal and perfect

Mdlftr · #8 December 24th, 2013, 01:30 PM

...I have NO IDEA what you're talking about!

I suspect "power bottom" is NOT like "power wash" as in cleaning a deck!

...Not that I really want to know, but have fun in Ft. Lauderdale!

Mdlftr

SoDakGuy · #9 December 24th, 2013, 03:23 PM

I never thought of myself as a power bottom; I always thought it meant like a lazy bottom. I'm very glad I'm wrong. So, I'm trying to adjust my mind that it's perfectly fine to buff up, work out, box, biking and fine being a bottom. I'm getting there.

gogr2 · #10 December 24th, 2013, 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mdlftr

...I have NO IDEA what you're talking about!

I suspect "power bottom" is NOT like "power wash" as in cleaning a deck!

...Not that I really want to know, but have fun in Ft. Lauderdale!

Mdlftr

You aren't the only straight guy that is confused as to what a "power bottom" entails.

LeatherGryphon · #11 December 25th, 2013, 05:53 AM

Power Bottom: A sexual submissive who holds all the cards and figuratively leads his/her partner around by the nose (or other appendages).

Yachirobi · #12 December 25th, 2013, 06:48 AM

1. Fuckin' site ate my original post!

2. My definition of "power bottom" is a man who is both the bottom, the man getting fucked, and the one in charge of the sexual encounter (AKA the dominant.) Straight guys, if a woman is the one telling you what to do in the bedroom then she's a heterosexual version of a power bottom. That said, LG's definition kinda works too. I just like mine better.

3. SoDak, I think your urge to bottom is growing because your improved body is making you more confident and secure in your masculinity. You're becoming more comfortable, or at least more hungry, for anal sex because you're more comfortable in your own skin. Maybe that's just what feels best for you.

You might write a letter to Dan Savage and see what he has to say. It would be cool to see one of our members getting some Savage Love advice!

suma · #13 December 25th, 2013, 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherGryphon

Power Bottom: A sexual submissive who holds all the cards and figuratively leads his/her partner around by the nose (or other appendages).

However the "power" part in this case gas very real meaning
i.e. he is literally bigger, more powerful than the top.

gogr2 · #14 December 25th, 2013, 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yachirobi

2. My definition of "power bottom" is a man who is both the bottom, the man getting fucked, and the one in charge of the sexual encounter (AKA the dominant.) Straight guys, if a woman is the one telling you what to do in the bedroom then she's a heterosexual version of a power bottom. That said, LG's definition kinda works too. I just like mine better.

That makes sense... Sort of. I've never experienced the woman-in-charge in sex, so still a slightly foreign concept. I guess I'm just a very manly man.

MuscleNerd · #15 December 25th, 2013, 07:22 AM

Its cool im a huge power bottom love getting my body to take what it can be it tons of food to force the growth on stressing my body out lifting weights the bigger I get the more I want to take

Mdlftr · #16 December 25th, 2013, 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherGryphon

Power Bottom: A sexual submissive who holds all the cards and figuratively leads his/her partner around by the nose (or other appendages).

...that's enough detail and I GET the idea!

Thanks ( I think) for that bit of information....

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