8kg of muscle

[breathless]

So, I'm dating this guy who's like a whole foot shorter than me (I'm 6'2). Usually I don't date guys so short but he seemed nice. Also he's lean with a really nicely toned body. First date he mentioned how his trainer (he works out daily) told him he needs to start getting protein and other supplements in order to gain muscle mass. I asked him if he wanted to get more muscular and he said yes. Last date I told him I liked muscle worship (he asked if I had any kinks) and he said he would start working to gain at least 8kg of muscle (17.5ish lb) for me.

I am, of course, ecstatic. He doesn't want to get too big but at his height I think he would look fantastic. I'll try to convince him to let me take progress pics.

I'm also really happy because he's genuinely sweet and caring. In fact now I'm wondering how to make it clear that while more muscle mass definitely doesn't bother me, I like him for who he is. I don't want him to feel like my attraction for him is purely physical. Because it isn't.

Of course he may not gain so much muscle, but he does work out regularly and has really great biceps he likes to show off for me so it really doesn't matter.

Just wanted to share with you guys

[Mdlftr]

Sounds like it could be a mutually beneficial experience!


As you say, the fact that he's willing to say this is pretty cool.

"I'll change for you." - Who doesn't want to hear that?

If you like him anyway, regardless, and tell him that, then he'll be doing it because he wants to, and he won't feel obligation and resentment - most likely!

[The Magus]

It sounds like you guys have something really special going on, so I hope the best for you. Physical attraction is great but when you find someone who clicks with you emotionally, nothing beats that feeling.

Oh also, short muscle guys are hot.