Small and Large - an Understanding

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[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Hi everyone![/COLOR]


[COLOR=lemonchiffon]First of all, I have to say that I was incredibly excited to find this forum. So far, it seems like a safe place to delve into fantasy and more importantly, talk to other people who feel about muscle the way that I do. Whether you?re big or small, this is a great place to explore your passion in a way that seems, for the most part, to be non-judgmental. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]I?ve gone through, virtually, every thread on this website (already a big fan of MuscleGod, DaLifter, Suma ? yes, those are personal shout-outs). I was curious to see how the BBer?s relate to the worshippers, etc. Surprisingly enough, and through the threads that I?ve read, I tend to err on the side of the BBer?s. They?re honest. They tend to be upfront and real. It?s the smaller guys that tend not to ?get it?. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]As I?ve learned through my reading, Richard wants ?Pix, dammit, pix?. That makes me laugh every time and of course, who doesn?t want that? At the same time, I would never post my picture on a forum of any kind, so don?t expect that from me or from the guys I?ve been with. It?s not fair to anyone involved. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]As far as stats, I?m currently 5?9 180#. I believe that I am a good-looking, confident gay man. I am in no way a bodybuilder and I?ve never had a six-pack in my life. While I?m working harder than ever to get ?shredded?, I have no interest of being a huge guy. I?m comfortable with me and I?ve never had any complaints. No one should try to be something they have no intention of being in the long run. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Regardless of all that and being the smaller guy into the muscle freaks since I was a kid?I have to say that the little guys on here need to work on their differentiation between fantasy and reality. I?m not here to judge anyone or to criticize in any way. But as a guy that has been ?worshipping? muscle guys, in one way or another, since I was 8 years old, I think that I have a grasp on how to make fantasies a reality. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]If you?re looking to talk to a dude who is 8 feet tall and weighs 700 pounds, then rock on. That?s what you?re into and there are some great threads on here about that. Personally, I?m writing to talk to the guys, like me, that are looking to make a connection with real bodybuilders. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]First and foremost, there is no such thing as labels in the muscle world. At least 80% of the guys that I?ve ?worshipped? have been ?straight?. We?re all different in our fantasies, but mine are based on MUSCLE. Sucking dick or getting fucked is truly dependent on the situation. Personally, I like to feel, be enveloped by, and be picked up by a massive muscled up guy. Have I sucked a bodybuilders dick or been fucked by him? Of course. But it doesn?t always come to that. And remember?just because the guy outweighs you by 100# doesn?t mean that you have to suck or be fucked when you?re uncomfortable doing so. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]True, I live in NYC and the options for muscle worship in this city are plentiful. But I?ve met guys in my original hometown at weddings and parties (etc.) and I?ve rarely walked away without massaging a huge bicep or being carried around the room. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]What I think the little guys need to know is that bodybuilders are people too. Don?t be afraid by their size. Don?t be intimidated to strike up a conversation in a gym. Guys that pack on 300# of muscle do it for themselves, first and foremost, but are typically more than willing to show off their hard work. I?ve had two IFBB bodybuilders at my apartment and?you get the point.[/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Be smart about it. Be safe. Get to know the guy. Understand where he?s coming from. Know your boundaries and make sure that he knows them as well. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Look, we?ve all met guys online that claim to be something they?re not. If you?re not exchanging legitimate pics and talking on the phone, he?s probably not going to be what you imagine in your mind. The phone sex is great with those type of guys, but don?t expect them to show up at your home ready to let you ride on their back while they do push-ups.[/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]I?ve had two muscle worship experiences in the last 3 months with two different guys. I got to know them both online and then through the phone (a must). Both were huge, one was married to a woman and one was gay. I met up with them outside my apartment, saw that they were legit, and brought them up to my place. I fed them both as was the plan. When a bodybuilder says that they eat up to 10 times a day, yeah, it?s true. I suggest lots of chicken, rice and broccoli. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]One guy ate his dinner, flexed for me over and over, and ultimately picked me up with one arm and jerked himself off with the other. I leaked cum all over myself (and him) and held on to his neck and shoulders while he orgasmed. It was phenomenal and as soon as he left, I jerked off every hour on the hour. Seeing him again on Sunday.[/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]The other dude, same type of body, ate his dinner and immediately commanded that I suck him off. I don?t do the ?master/slave? thing. That was not discussed on the phone previously and I have no interest in it. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Look?just because I?m the smaller guy doesn?t mean that I?m a dumpster. I told the dude to ?take off? and he got pissed and slammed around my apartment for a couple of minutes, actually breaking a picture that I had hanging on the wall in the bathroom. Douche. I stood my ground and he ended up leaving and that?s that. Just because they?re big, doesn?t mean that they?re going to murder you. Don?t worry. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Muscle worship is a mutual experience that should be enjoyed by both parties. Don?t be scared of having a guy that weighs 300# in your home. They?re no more dangerous than a guy who weighs 160#. Think about it. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Be confident. Be intelligent. Be honest. And most of all, be yourself. When I was in my teens, I would dream about spending an HOUR with a muscle freak. Now, it?s old hat. It?s attainable, it?s cool, and it?s normal. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Big guys will always look for big guys to show off for. But big guys will always look for small guys to show off for as well. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]And if you need to know, yes?I?ve have had two long term relationships with bodybuilders. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]I?m here to say that if you?re a great guy, the big guy is more than willing to share in his muscle journey with you. [/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Be safe and give it a go![/COLOR]

[COLOR=lemonchiffon]Thanks for reading. [/COLOR]

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