Dating

[SoDakGuy]

Okay, I'm on Winstrol and Cytomel and I'm loving the results right now. But I'm wondering how to bring it up when you're dating someone new. I know it really depends on the guy and his personality. Sometimes, I wish I could date another guy doing a cycle so we don't have to hide what we're doing.

Have any of you had problems dating when you're cycling?

[Calgary]

Tough question... My boyfriend HATES that I take stuff. He does, though, love how I look as a result. He knows, but we don't really talk about it.
I think where people get themselves into trouble is in lying about doing/not doing. I have not broadcast my choice, but I don't deny it. It does depend on audience obviously how you approach that.
Gay men who go to the gym have a very very high rate of steroid use; this isn't an uncommon situation you are in.

[beastmode]

Originally Posted by Calgary

Gay men who go to the gym have a very very high rate of steroid use; this isn't an uncommon situation you are in.

nice, reassuring advice here!

[lovemuscle76543]

haha I think roids are hot. I'd gladly inject my bf if he wants to do them. lol

[SteepMike81]

I would be cool with it as I would be enjoying the benefits of it.

My only concern would be what the steroids are doing to his body inside. I want my guy to be with me for as long as possible so I wouldn't want him taking or doing anything that might shorten his life unnecessarily.

[Mdlftr]

With any other medication or even recreational drug, why is this an issue? If it's some new date, why is this even their business until many many dates along in the relationship?

Also, if you are unusually thick and cut for your frame, and since, as someone said, "many many gay men into the gym use steroids" why is this not obvious before it ever comes up in conversation?

"HI, I'm a 38 year old accountant with 19 inch arms, a 54-inch chest, 34-inch waist and 9% bodyfat. What's wrong with this picture?"

It's like dating a woman with "sun streaked hair" --- in November! Do you think she dyes her hair? Well D'oh!

Talk about the weather instead, as in, "Gosh, my massive lats can serve as an umbrella when we go out walking in the rain, new boyfriend!"



Mdlftr

[Curiosity]

I would probably want to know. I agree that it's not one of those topics you breach right away, but I also agree with Calgary about hiding it or lying about it. If it's obvious, then it will probably come up at some point, but if the opportunity never presented itself, I would rather the guy told me than him sneaking around hiding it.

[The Magus]

My bf is against steroids, but we recently had a talk and I found out that the reasons are that he's concerned about health and also about whether my personality would change (eg roid rage). I've already told him that before I considered taking steroids, I'd need to have been working out and eating right consistently for at least five years* - long enough for me to actually get close to my potential, before mucking around with chemicals. Who knows, maybe by then I'll be satisfied with my size.

I think if you're going to have a long term relationship with someone you should be up front about it, but have a real discussion. Sometimes they made their decision because of myths they picked up in the media, and with some education they might change their mind or realize that having a big muscle beast at their beck and call is worth the side effects. Maybe they'll never change their mind, but you don't know if you don't ask.

But for just casual encounters or whatever? Who cares! If they like what they see, they don't need to know how you got there.


*One year down, 4 to go!

[DutchTrainee]

for me at the moment it is 'dont ask, dont tell'. my bf loves my growth... and i love growing.. so as long as he doesn't ask, i wont bring it up. If he does, i will tell...
I agree, i dream o a bud to inject eachother and go real hardcore...

[nevertoobig]

Well, DutchTrainee,

I'm still open for suggestions. You know how to reach me.

Kom maar op met die spuit!!!!

[dclifters]

I deny it when dating someone new, I'm all natural I say. Will do this till I get to really know the person. You never know who he's going to talk to after your date and what he'll say. It's always better to play it safe.

Now if I'm dating another big guy and it's fairly obvious he's also using then I might discuss.

[SoDakGuy]

I've dated a few guys recently and they think I am natural. I don't mention it at all and I don't bring it up. I am cutting up and looking a lot leaner, thanks to anavar and winstrol, but they all think it's from all of the spin classes I'm taking. Well, that does help too.

[Big RR]

Damn, that's hot as hell! I roided up my ex-lover after his begging me for weeks to help him become as huge as I was(Never going to happen and never did lol! I put him on a cycle, packed a huge 60lbs of muscle on him and turned him into an even hotter muscle bottom begging to be fucked 24/7 which I was always throbbing hard thanks to the roids and even not on roids! To bad he decided he needed to share his new muscles with the rest of the city while I was traveling for work lol! Broke up with him, cut his roids off and now is has let himself go and is a blob! Love to meet a new bf into my roiding up and growing huge with me, stronger than Superman and living happily ever after but of course, I've said that all here before! I'm throbbing hard reading that someone else here would do the same thing to a bf! GRRRR!!!!!!!

[paarke]

Not that I'd ever be lucky enough to be in that position, but it wouldn't bother me. Let's face it, I enjoy the results so I'd be a hypocrite if I moaned about roid use. I wouldn't have a problem helping with injections etc. either. Really like the thought of helping someone get huge!

[Big RR]

You sound like exactly the man I am looking for Paarke! I think it's hot as hell to give one another their roid injections and then fuck before the gym!

[SoDakGuy]

You know Big RR, that's EXACTLY what I want to do with a guy I date. I've never dated anyone on a cycle the same time as me. It would be freaking hot!!

[davisTico]

Why aren't guys like you in my area! would love a guy to date that wants to see me get huge and would even want to inject me and have some really hot sex after the workout

[The Magus]

Well, now that this thread's been bumped, I guess I'm a big ol' hippocrite because I'm almost done my first cycle and I haven't told my long term boyfriend at all. A big change from what I said less than 10 months ago. Well, shit.

[hero1000]

At least you are honest about your backtrack I can understand the hesitation.

[The Magus]

I do plan to tell him before I do my 2nd cycle (but I won't tell him it's not my first, I think). He is definitely enjoying my growing muscles...the last two weeks he's had me flex for his friends, and taken a few iphone pics of me flexing my arms...this is stuff he's never done in the 5 years we've been together, lol.

I'll just be doing testosterone again, I'm pretty sure, and that's pretty easy to show is relatively safe at moderate doses. So he may go for it, so long as I don't show any roid rage or die of a heart attack on him.

I'm gonna be on my best behaviour until we have that talk though....

[paarke]

Originally Posted by The Magus

I do plan to tell him before I do my 2nd cycle (but I won't tell him it's not my first, I think). He is definitely enjoying my growing muscles...the last two weeks he's had me flex for his friends, and taken a few iphone pics of me flexing my arms...this is stuff he's never done in the 5 years we've been together, lol.

I'll just be doing testosterone again, I'm pretty sure, and that's pretty easy to show is relatively safe at moderate doses. So he may go for it, so long as I don't show any roid rage or die of a heart attack on him.

I'm gonna be on my best behaviour until we have that talk though....

Do you think maybe he suspects already? Sounds like he's enjoying the results.