Slight dilemma

[luvyalots]

So I've been bulking the last couple of months, nearing 200 lbs and pretty happy with it (though never really satisfied of course). The only thing is that it's creating a small dilemma.

I have two friends I kinda fool around with - nothing serious, they just come over and we...you know... Anyway, one wants me to get as big as possible (like REALLY big) while the other says I'm on the verge of getting too big.

Not sure what to do.

[LeatherMuscle]

well do you want ot be HUGE or not is your choice if they dotn like it well its not their life thats just my opinion. if you wanan be massive i know i do the fucking do it if youd ratehr not then dont. in the end its truly your choice noone elses.

[The Magus]

It's your choice, man. They may enjoy your body, but you have to live in it.

What do YOU want to do?

[schwermarko]

The thing you should do is set your goals according to what your heart wants for you.

The fact that you have a willing fuckbuddy along either course of action just makes me really envious. Take it from someone who knows they want to be a freak, finding one person who is into your freakishness, and is otherwise compatible is hard.

Also, women are taught to say things about not wanting "too much muscle" and that seems to go out the window fast enough when it is pressed against them, Do gay guys do that too? Do certain subsets do it more than others?