Any straight guy with muscle fetish here?

[MonsterMash62]

That's kind of an interesting take, and kind of how I see things.

Sex seems mostly in my head to me anyways. I am extremely attracted to my partner, and think he's incredibly sexy, but he isn't what I normally fantasize about. What I normally fantasize about is not realistic at all, and doesn't necessarily equate to what I find physically sexy.

This confused the hell out of me when I was younger, and made it very difficult to figure out who/what I was attracted to in the real world. It's also very tough to explain (say, to loving, patient and interested partners).

[mooninater]

I think I'm straight. I'm attracted to average girls and haven't met a regular guy that I'm attracted to, but when muscle comes into the picture, on either girls or guys, there's often an attraction there for me.

[darkknight]

Originally Posted by suma

for the straight guys here, I'm curious how many of you have taken your fetish for muscle to build an impressive muscular body yourself?

Guilty. I started off very skinny but I'm up about 90lbs and don't intend to stop. My girlfriend said she'd prefer if I didn't get any bigger, but wouldn't really mind if I was a monster. Which I intend to be.

On topic, I think my fetish involves fantasizing about turning into a gigantic Hulk-like creature and having sex with chicks who are totally into it, and excited by being rammed by a monstrous hulk. I need to find more stories with that theme.

[manlion]

Originally Posted by darkknight

Guilty. I started off very skinny but I'm up about 90lbs and don't intend to stop. My girlfriend said she'd prefer if I didn't get any bigger, but wouldn't really mind if I was a monster. Which I intend to be.

On topic, I think my fetish involves fantasizing about turning into a gigantic Hulk-like creature and having sex with chicks who are totally into it, and excited by being rammed by a monstrous hulk. I need to find more stories with that theme.

Wow, dude, same here for the fantasy. I get off on muscle guys, but it's all about becoming one and the sex. I'm romantically attracted to women and expect to settle down and get married with kids, but she better like big, musclebound hairy guys. (is there a term for straight bears/musclebears as an archetype?)

[zilcher]

This is an amazing thread.

It's Primal.

We'll all learned that our brain has not changed in millions of years.

Millions of years ago there weren't huge muscle studs. People couldn't find enough food.

Now, with that same old brain and lots of protein and gyms, we make ourselves huge.

That old brain sees this amazing thing, and voila! People think they are gay!

Many are not. It's the muscle.

Survival is the greatest primal instinct, and if you hang with the biggest and most powerful, you'll make it. Only now, the biggest and most powerful is insanely big and insanely powerful. Bodybuilders complete this amazing circle. And it catches our attention.

That's why straight guys want to hang with and become super huge. Primal Survival.

My .02

[niko777]

OMG, guys, I'm so happy I started this thread, it got so interesting!

Thank you all for your input!

Niko

[hero1000]

No doubt this is one of the coolest threads on here. Thanks Nico

[dodoria21]

yep it's definitely one of my favorites. so great to know and realize that most guys, whether they admit it or not, are like this

[Ohme123]

Originally Posted by Starflower

I personally find that its more important to love the person you?re with and how the sex FEELS like, rather than, well, optic stimulation? E.g. right now I am together with a man whose physique does not overlap with my fetishes, but the sex is awesome. And it?s the exact opposite when I masturbate.

*shrugs* make of that what you want.

I am still afraid and very ashamed to tell him about my fetishes because I am afraid that he might think I don?t find him attractive, which is not the case at all. Thankfully he does not force me to tell him about it.

That's interesting. I had sort of the opposite issue w/ my boyfriend. He was cute when we first started dating, but the sex wasn't that great because we both really weren't honest with what we were into (I'm into bears/muscle/guts/growth and he's into twinks). After sort of admitting that, he's been bulking up and it turns me on like crazy.

This is an interesting thread. A lot of times when I look at porn w/ big guys, I like to picture myself as them because it is so outside of myself (I'm pretty skinny, a little hairy, I guess I'd be called a "pup" but I have a really young/twinkish face). Even if I did look like that though, I'd want to be fucking men still. I feel like if you are jerking off to men/images of men, even if you are very much focused on yourself being that person, there is something gay about that. Not to say you can't get off to muscle women as well and be bisexual (or be sexually attracted to men but romantically attracted to women), but I can't imagine having sex with a woman, even if I was emotionally attracted. I feel like who I masturbate to directly correlates with who I want to have sex with (not that they have to meet the outrageous expectations of all these bodybuilders or anything, but beefier/hairier does it for me).

[hero1000]

I was just rereading this thread. What great stories everyone shared. Wondering if there are any more lurking out there...

[nvb2]

Originally Posted by musqlure

There are bisexuals who choose to live as heterosexuals for any number of reasons. Some find it easier because of societal homophobia. Others may be in a committed relationship with a partner of the opposite sex. (I know a bisexual woman in that situation.) Their orientation remains bisexual; they simply aren't acting on that orientation for reasons unrelated to their sexual desires.

I haven't read the entirety of the thread, but I will share a bit of me personally. I have (mostly privately) decided to identify myself as bisexual. I'm aroused by and turned on by men, almost always by superficial characteristics (most obviously muscle), but I find certain sexual relations with men arousing as well. I find women attractive, but different than my straight counterparts.

For a variety of factors, I have chosen to date (and one day marry) a woman. She knows everything there is to know about me. She accepts my fetishes and loves me for all of me. She and about five other people are the only ones who know about my bisexual identification. I love her because I feel we were made for one another and (CORNY ALERT) I do think she's my "soulmate" as people call it. Some part of her thinks that I should have a "hot sexual encounter with a man" to make sure I don't prefer it first, but we are both ready to spend our lives together. I feel like personality and character should always come before outward appearance. I feel guilty, however, whenever I'm checking out a guy I find attractive, nevertheless. None of this is to say that she doesn't get me aroused...constantly.

We share different tastes in men (she's almost always turned off by muscle), but we agreed that we could three-way with Dwayne Johnson if ever we got the chance. That's probably more than I should ever share, but there you have it. I thought I'd add some bisexual opinion to the thread.

[Dentistclark]

As a 100% gay man I've found this thread really fascinating. Lessons learned? Well, we are who we are, we love who and what we love and what a wonderfully diverse and unpredictable species we are.